Nostr Social Graph

Overview

Build and traverse Nostr social graphs: follow lists, relay discovery, the outbox model, and NIP-51 lists. This skill handles the non-obvious parts — correct tag structures for each list kind, the outbox model's read/write relay routing, private list item encryption, and efficient graph traversal patterns.

When to Use

• The task involves Nostr follow graphs, relay lists, mute/bookmark sets, NIP-51 lists, or outbox-model relay discovery.
• The user is implementing list semantics, social traversal, or feed sourcing from relationship data.
• The problem is graph/list behavior across users and relays, not individual-note publishing.
• The request needs event structures or algorithms for follows, lists, or social discovery.

Do NOT use when:

• The task is building a single note, reply, or other standalone event.
• The work is relay protocol or generic client lifecycle logic.
• The problem is query-filter syntax rather than social-graph semantics.

Response format

Always structure the final response with these top-level sections, in this order:

1. Summary — state the task, scope, and main conclusion in 1-3 sentences.
2. Decision / Approach — state the key classification, assumptions, or chosen path.
3. Artifacts — provide the primary deliverable(s) for this skill. Use clear subheadings for multiple files, commands, JSON payloads, queries, or documents.
4. Validation — state checks performed, important risks, caveats, or unresolved questions.
5. Next steps — list concrete follow-up actions, or write None if nothing remains.

Rules:

• Do not omit a section; write None when a section does not apply.
• If files are produced, list each file path under Artifacts before its contents.
• If commands, JSON, SQL, YAML, or code are produced, put each artifact in fenced code blocks with the correct language tag when possible.
• Keep section names exactly as written above so output stays predictable across skills.

Workflow

1. Identify the List Kind

Ask: "What social graph data is the developer working with?"

Intent	Kind	Category	NIP
Follow/unfollow users	3	Replaceable	NIP-02
Mute users, words, hashtags	10000	Replaceable	NIP-51
Pin notes to profile	10001	Replaceable	NIP-51
Advertise read/write relays	10002	Replaceable	NIP-65
Bookmark events	10003	Replaceable	NIP-51
Set DM relay preferences	10050	Replaceable	NIP-51
Categorized follow groups	30000	Addressable	NIP-51
User-defined relay groups	30002	Addressable	NIP-51

See references/list-kinds.md for all list kinds with full tag structures.

2. Build the Event Structure

Follow List (Kind:3)

{
  "kind": 3,
  "tags": [
    ["p", "<pubkey-hex>", "<relay-url>", "<petname>"],
    ["p", "<pubkey-hex>", "<relay-url>"],
    ["p", "<pubkey-hex>"]
  ],
  "content": ""
}

Rules:

• Replaceable: only the latest kind:3 per pubkey is kept
• Each p tag = one followed pubkey
• Relay URL and petname are optional (can be empty string or omitted)
• content is empty (historically held relay prefs, now use kind:10002)
• Append new follows to the end for chronological ordering
• Publish the complete list every time — new event replaces the old one

Relay List Metadata (Kind:10002)

{
  "kind": 10002,
  "tags": [
    ["r", "wss://relay.example.com"],
    ["r", "wss://write-only.example.com", "write"],
    ["r", "wss://read-only.example.com", "read"]
  ],
  "content": ""
}

Rules:

• Replaceable: only the latest kind:10002 per pubkey is kept
• r tags with relay URLs
• No marker = both read AND write
• "read" marker = read only
• "write" marker = write only
• Keep small: guide users to 2-4 relays per category
• Spread this event widely for discoverability

Mute List (Kind:10000)

{
  "kind": 10000,
  "tags": [
    ["p", "<pubkey-hex>"],
    ["t", "hashtag-to-mute"],
    ["word", "lowercase-word"],
    ["e", "<thread-event-id>"]
  ],
  "content": "<encrypted-private-items-or-empty>"
}

Rules:

• Public items go in tags
• Private items go in content as encrypted JSON
• Supports p (pubkeys), t (hashtags), word (strings), e (threads)
• Words should be lowercase for case-insensitive matching

3. Handle Private List Items (NIP-51 Encryption)

Any NIP-51 list can have private items. Public items live in tags, private items are encrypted in content.

Encryption process:

// Private items use the same tag structure as public items
const privateItems = [
  ["p", "07caba282f76441955b695551c3c5c742e5b9202a3784780f8086fdcdc1da3a9"],
  ["word", "nsfw"],
];

// Encrypt with NIP-44 using the author's own key pair
// The shared key is computed from author's pubkey + privkey
const encrypted = nip44.encrypt(
  JSON.stringify(privateItems),
  conversationKey(authorPrivkey, authorPubkey),
);

event.content = encrypted;

Decryption and backward compatibility:

function decryptPrivateItems(event, authorPrivkey) {
  if (!event.content || event.content === "") return [];

  // Detect NIP-04 vs NIP-44 by checking for "iv" in ciphertext
  if (event.content.includes("?iv=")) {
    // Legacy NIP-04 format
    return JSON.parse(
      nip04.decrypt(authorPrivkey, authorPubkey, event.content),
    );
  } else {
    // Current NIP-44 format
    return JSON.parse(nip44.decrypt(
      conversationKey(authorPrivkey, authorPubkey),
      event.content,
    ));
  }
}

4. Implement the Outbox Model

The outbox model is the correct way to route event fetching across relays. See references/outbox-model.md for the full explanation.

Core rules:

Action	Which relays to use
Fetch events FROM a user	That user's WRITE relays
Fetch events ABOUT a user (mentions)	That user's READ relays
Publish your own event	Your WRITE relays
Notify tagged users	Each tagged user's READ relays
Spread your kind:10002	As many relays as viable

Implementation pattern:

async function buildFeedSubscriptions(myFollows: string[]) {
  // Step 1: Fetch kind:10002 for each followed user
  const relayLists = await fetchRelayLists(myFollows);

  // Step 2: Group follows by their WRITE relays
  const relayToUsers = new Map<string, string[]>();
  for (const [pubkey, relays] of relayLists) {
    const writeRelays = getWriteRelays(relays); // "write" or no marker
    for (const relay of writeRelays) {
      if (!relayToUsers.has(relay)) relayToUsers.set(relay, []);
      relayToUsers.get(relay)!.push(pubkey);
    }
  }

  // Step 3: Subscribe to each relay for its relevant users
  for (const [relay, users] of relayToUsers) {
    subscribe(relay, { kinds: [1], authors: users });
  }
}

function getWriteRelays(tags: string[][]): string[] {
  return tags
    .filter((t) => t[0] === "r" && (t.length === 2 || t[2] === "write"))
    .map((t) => t[1]);
}

function getReadRelays(tags: string[][]): string[] {
  return tags
    .filter((t) => t[0] === "r" && (t.length === 2 || t[2] === "read"))
    .map((t) => t[1]);
}

5. Traverse the Social Graph

Follows-of-follows (2-hop):

async function getFollowsOfFollows(pubkey: string) {
  // 1. Get direct follows
  const myFollowList = await fetchKind3(pubkey);
  const directFollows = myFollowList.tags
    .filter((t) => t[0] === "p")
    .map((t) => t[1]);

  // 2. Fetch kind:3 for each direct follow
  const secondHop = await Promise.all(
    directFollows.map((pk) => fetchKind3(pk)),
  );

  // 3. Aggregate and rank by frequency
  const scores = new Map<string, number>();
  for (const followList of secondHop) {
    for (const tag of followList.tags.filter((t) => t[0] === "p")) {
      const pk = tag[1];
      if (pk !== pubkey && !directFollows.includes(pk)) {
        scores.set(pk, (scores.get(pk) || 0) + 1);
      }
    }
  }

  return [...scores.entries()].sort((a, b) => b[1] - a[1]);
}

Web of Trust scoring:

function wotScore(
  target: string,
  myFollows: string[],
  followLists: Map<string, string[]>,
): number {
  let score = 0;
  for (const follow of myFollows) {
    const theirFollows = followLists.get(follow) || [];
    if (theirFollows.includes(target)) score++;
  }
  return score; // Higher = more trusted
}

6. Validate Before Publishing

• Kind is correct for the list type
• All tag types are valid for this kind (see list-kinds reference)
• For kind:3: every entry is a p tag with valid 32-byte hex pubkey
• For kind:10002: every entry is an r tag with valid wss:// URL
• For kind:10002: markers are only "read" or "write" (or omitted)
• For kind:10000: word tags use lowercase strings
• Private items are encrypted with NIP-44 (not NIP-04 for new events)
• The complete list is published (not just additions/removals)
• content is empty string when no private items exist
• created_at is Unix timestamp in seconds

Common Mistakes

Mistake	Why It Breaks	Fix
Publishing only new follows instead of the full list	Kind:3 is replaceable — new event replaces old, so partial list = lost follows	Always publish the complete follow list
Using kind:3 content for relay preferences	Deprecated; clients ignore it	Use kind:10002 for relay list metadata
Treating unmarked r tags as write-only	No marker means BOTH read and write	["r", "wss://..."] = read + write
Fetching from a user's READ relays for their posts	READ relays are where they expect mentions, not where they publish	Use WRITE relays to fetch a user's own events
Broadcasting to all known relays	Wastes bandwidth, defeats the outbox model	Use targeted relay routing per the outbox model
Using NIP-04 for new private list items	NIP-04 is deprecated for this purpose	Use NIP-44 encryption for new events
Forgetting to spread kind:10002 widely	Others can't discover your relays	Publish kind:10002 to well-known indexer relays
Uppercase words in mute list word tags	Matching should be case-insensitive	Always store words as lowercase
Missing relay URL normalization	Duplicate relay entries with different formatting	Normalize URLs (lowercase host, remove default port, trailing slash)

Quick Reference

Operation	Kind	Key Tags	Content
Follow user	3	["p", "<hex>", "<relay>", "<petname>"]	""
Set relays	10002	["r", "<url>", "<read|write>"]	""
Mute user/word	10000	["p", "<hex>"], ["word", "<str>"]	encrypted private items
Pin note	10001	["e", "<event-id>"]	""
Bookmark	10003	["e", "<id>"], ["a", "<coord>"]	encrypted private items
DM relays	10050	["relay", "<url>"]	""
Follow set	30000	["d", "<id>"], ["p", "<hex>"]	encrypted private items
Relay set	30002	["d", "<id>"], ["relay", "<url>"]	encrypted private items

Key Principles

1. Replaceable means complete — Kind:3, 10000, 10001, 10002, 10003 are replaceable events. Every publish must contain the FULL list, not just changes. The new event completely replaces the old one.

2. Outbox model is not optional — Fetching events without consulting kind:10002 relay lists leads to missed content and wasted connections. Always resolve a user's write relays before fetching their events.

3. Private items use NIP-44 — New encrypted list content MUST use NIP-44. When reading, detect NIP-04 legacy format by checking for ?iv= in the ciphertext and handle both.

4. Relay lists should be small — Guide users to 2-4 relays per category (read/write). Large relay lists defeat the purpose of targeted routing and increase load on the network.

5. Graph traversal requires relay awareness — You can't just fetch kind:3 from one relay. Use the outbox model to find each user's kind:3 on their write relays, then use those follow lists to discover the next hop.